<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Marinade: The Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[Real talk with fellow writers from all walks of life - candid and unscripted - feeds my YouTube channel @rajofftherecord.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/s/podcast</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vcrV!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F22a9d7ca-47cd-4f71-9ebd-50e650037928_256x256.png</url><title>The Marinade: The Podcast</title><link>https://blog.13apples.com/s/podcast</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 13:11:45 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://blog.13apples.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[www.13apples.com]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[raj@13apples.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[raj@13apples.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[raj@13apples.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[raj@13apples.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[🚀 Spot the Puddles: The Substack Playbook with Mike Searles]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re tired of the "post and pray" method, this playbook is for you.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/spot-the-puddles-mike-searles-substack</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/spot-the-puddles-mike-searles-substack</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 02:02:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/188330754/b0e6aa67e81eeb7acedd25598fdaf6ac.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mike Searles</strong> sat down with <strong>&#2358;&#2381;&#2352;&#2368;raj</strong> to strip away the "guru" talk and get real about what it actually takes to build a thriving publication.</p><h3><strong>The Full Breakdown</strong></h3><ul><li><p><strong>0:00 &#8211; The &#8220;Off the Record&#8221; Intent</strong> Moving past polished tutorials to discuss the raw, often messy reality of the creator economy.</p></li><li><p><strong>05:15 &#8211; The Leap from Corporate</strong> Mike discusses the transition from a traditional career to writing full-time and why he views Substack as a <strong>relationship tool</strong> rather than just a blog.</p></li><li><p><strong>15:30 &#8211; Identifying the &#8220;Puddles&#8221;</strong> The core philosophy of the session: avoiding &#8220;puddles&#8221; like over-editing, obsessing over unsubscribes, and getting distracted by technical &#8220;feature creep.&#8221;</p></li><li><p><strong>28:45 &#8211; The Minimum Viable Post (MVP)</strong> How to kill perfectionism. Mike explains his workflow for testing ideas in <strong>Substack Notes</strong> before committing them to a full-length article.</p></li><li><p><strong>42:10 &#8211; Growth via the &#8220;Internal Engine&#8221;</strong> Why external SEO matters less than the Substack network. Insight into leveraging <strong>Recommendations</strong> and cross-stack collaborations to find your &#8220;True Fans.&#8221;</p></li><li><p><strong>1:05:20 &#8211; The Monetization Strategy</strong> Mike explains his &#8220;Soft Paywall&#8221; approach: keeping high-value information free to grow the list, while charging for <strong>access, intimacy, and community.</strong></p></li><li><p><strong>1:20:00 &#8211; Q&amp;A: Finding Your Niche</strong> The golden rule for creators: <em>&#8220;Write for the person you were two years ago.&#8221;</em></p></li></ul><div><hr></div><h3><strong>3 Key Lessons to Take Away</strong></h3><ol><li><p><strong>Don&#8217;t Fear the Unsubscribe:</strong> Think of it as natural pruning. You want a list of engaged readers, not a graveyard of ghosts.</p></li><li><p><strong>Notes are your Lab:</strong> Use Substack Notes to see what resonates. If a short thought gets engagement, it deserves a long-form post.</p></li><li><p><strong>Recommendations are Currency:</strong> The fastest way to grow is to be a good neighbor. Engage with other writers, and the algorithm will reward you.</p></li></ol><p><em>Find more content on <a href="https://youtube.com/@rajofftherecord">my YouTube channel @rajofftherecord</a>, f</em>or more conversations with writers about their craft, and why any of it matters.</p><div id="youtube2-0QSZw0At0Hs" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;0QSZw0At0Hs&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/0QSZw0At0Hs?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Larry Bone on the H‑1B Crackdown: What’s at Stake!?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now (17 mins) | This week, US Republican senators proposed measures to pause or end the H&#8209;1B visa program, which affects foreign students and workers. I talk with Larry about what this could mean as the story unfolds.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/live-with-larry-bone</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/live-with-larry-bone</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2026 19:02:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/187664286/d777f9457d4092f93b0209075ee18b13.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a discussion between with Author/Writer Larry Bone about current legislative actions and sentiment toward the H-1B visa program in the United States. See summary below.</p><p>To watch more related content, please subscribe to my <a href="http://YouTube.com/@rajofftherecord">YouTube channel @rajofftherecord</a>.</p><div id="youtube2-g4sVEbIyNj0" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;g4sVEbIyNj0&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/g4sVEbIyNj0?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div><p>Here is a summary:</p><ul><li><p><strong>Proposed Elimination:</strong> The main focus is on bills being introduced by some lawmakers, including a Florida representative, to completely eliminate the H-1B visa program. The proposed legislation, titled the &#8220;EXILE Act,&#8221; is framed to end what proponents call &#8220;Exploitative Imported Labor Exemptions Act&#8221;</p></li><li><p><strong>The Argument for H-1B:</strong> Larry Bone argues that eliminating the program would be detrimental to technological excellence in the U.S. He contends that companies rely on highly qualified foreign workers, often with advanced degrees, to maintain a competitive edge, and restricting this talent could hurt the companies and the overall economy.</p></li><li><p><strong>Proposed Reforms:</strong> The guest suggests that if American students are facing unfair disadvantages in the job market, the government should focus on reforming the program legislatively to address these specific issues, rather than cutting out the whole program.</p></li><li><p><strong>Administrative Changes:</strong> The discussion also touches on recent changes by USCIS, which have moved away from a purely lottery system for the visa and are introducing a tiered, qualification-based selection process (favoring higher degrees like PhDs).</p></li><li><p><strong>Impact on Students:</strong> The video highlights the real-world consequences of the uncertainty, noting that many students are currently in a state of limbo, with some interview appointments being postponed and others choosing to leave the country early.</p></li></ul><p>This is a developing story.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[✍️ Writing Memoirs from Memories: A Conversation with Dr. Mukta Naik]]></title><description><![CDATA[Excavating memory, family, and self-censorship to find a more honest way to write &#8212; and live &#8212; in a performance-obsessed world.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/writing-memoirs-from-memories</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/writing-memoirs-from-memories</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 15:37:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/186093870/b78ffc7e719c7712ffc2cb5efc448983.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this deeply reflective episode of <strong>Off the Record</strong>, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@rajofftherecord">&#2358;&#2381;&#2352;&#2368;raj</a> sits down with <a href="https://rajofftherecord.substack.com/p/writing-memoirs-from-memories">Dr. Mukta Naik</a> to explore the art of &#8220;excavating&#8221; the past. They dive into how we can move beyond self-censorship to find a more honest way to write&#8212;and live&#8212;in a world that often demands a polished performance.</p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>Video Guide &amp; Key Moments</strong></h3><ul><li><p><strong>00:00 &#8211; The Performance Trap</strong> An introduction to why memoir is so difficult today. We discuss the tension between our &#8220;public selves&#8221; and our &#8220;remembered selves.&#8221;</p></li><li><p><strong>08:15 &#8211; The Act of Excavation</strong> Dr. Naik explains her process for digging through old memories. It&#8217;s not just about what happened, but about finding the <em>emotional truth</em> buried under years of perspective.</p></li><li><p><strong>18:30 &#8211; Family, Ethics, and Shared History</strong> A major hurdle for every memoirist: How do you write your truth when it involves other people? Insights into navigating the complexities of family stories.</p></li><li><p><strong>28:45 &#8211; Killing the Inner Censor</strong> Practical strategies for overcoming the fear of judgment and the instinct to &#8220;sanitize&#8221; your life story for an audience.</p></li><li><p><strong>38:20 &#8211; Writing as a Mirror</strong> A look at how journaling and long-form reflection act as tools for personal clarity, helping the writer understand their own patterns.</p></li><li><p><strong>44:10 &#8211; Living Honestly</strong> Final thoughts on how the discipline of memoir writing eventually bleeds into real life, leading to more authentic interactions and self-awareness.</p></li></ul><div><hr></div><h3><strong>Top 3 Takeaways for Aspiring Writers</strong></h3><ol><li><p><strong>Truth over Facts:</strong> A memoir isn&#8217;t a legal deposition. It&#8217;s an exploration of how a moment <em>felt</em> and how it shaped you. Don&#8217;t let a missing date stop you from writing the feeling.</p></li><li><p><strong>The &#8220;Two-Year&#8221; Rule:</strong> Much like Mike Searles&#8217; advice, writing is most effective when you speak to a past version of yourself. It grounds the narrative and removes the need to &#8220;perform.&#8221;</p></li><li><p><strong>Journaling is the Gym:</strong> You don&#8217;t start with a book; you start with a page. Use consistent journaling to build the &#8220;memory muscles&#8221; needed for larger projects.</p></li></ol><p><em>Find more content on <a href="https://youtube.com/@rajofftherecord">my YouTube channel @rajofftherecord</a>, f</em>or more conversations with writers about their craft, and why any of it matters. </p><div id="youtube2-g6JPzebqjhg" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;g6JPzebqjhg&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/g6JPzebqjhg?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[New Writing Platform for Indian Writers: Likhai Founder on Why This Matters Now]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why Indian Writers Need a New Platform to Build Hyper-local Reader Communities]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/new-writing-platform-for-indian-writers</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/new-writing-platform-for-indian-writers</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 18:17:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/185667416/0164ad33500f7739542dfc5d99243d35.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>The unabridged live video is available on my YouTube channel. 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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Marketing Your First Book – Marc A. Wolfe's Proven Playbook: The Mixr Live]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now (79 mins) | A recording from &#2358;&#2381;&#2352;&#2368;raj's live video]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/the-marinade-mixr-live-sell-your</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/the-marinade-mixr-live-sell-your</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 18:55:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/181050060/3e2137a9781b46c3a89c5fbe965e7e1e.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>The unabridged live video is available on my YouTube channel. Please <a href="https://youtube.com/@rajofftherecord">subscribe to the channel</a> and stay tuned for more insights from the writing desk.</em></p><div id="youtube2-a3qpeoKScLo" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;a3qpeoKScLo&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/a3qpeoKScLo?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div><p>This video features a discussion with Marc A. Wolfe, author of the book &#8220;Yeah, But... Cut Through the Noise to Live, Learn &amp; Lead Better.&#8221; The conversation centers around his book, his journey as a first-time author, and the concept of overcoming &#8220;yeah buts&#8221; or limiting beliefs.</p><p>Here&#8217;s a summary of the key points (summarized by Google Gemini):</p><ul><li><p><strong>About the Book &#8220;Yeah, But&#8221;</strong> (1:30-2:21): Marc explains that the book was 14 years in the making, born from the common phrase &#8220;yeah, but&#8221; which he heard frequently in his career. He realized that &#8220;but&#8221; often negates possibilities, and the book aims to help people overcome these limiting beliefs, including his own initial &#8220;yeah, but&#8221; about writing a book (2:52-3:17).</p></li><li><p><strong>Marc&#8217;s Background and the &#8220;Yeah Buts&#8221;</strong> (4:06-5:36): Marc has owned his own business since he was 16. He encountered &#8220;yeah buts&#8221; early in his career, even in technology and coaching, where people had limiting beliefs about new systems or strategic plans. He emphasizes that &#8220;yeah buts&#8221; are limiting beliefs that can hold people back, often originating from past experiences.</p></li><li><p><strong>The 15 &#8220;Yeah Buts&#8221; in the Book</strong> (8:49-10:01): The book covers 15 common &#8220;yeah buts,&#8221; structured into five sections:</p><ul><li><p><strong>Time-based:</strong> &#8220;I&#8217;m not ready,&#8221; &#8220;Somebody already did it,&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t have time&#8221; (20:57-21:04).</p></li><li><p><strong>Path-based:</strong> &#8220;I don&#8217;t know where to start,&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to do next,&#8221; &#8220;What&#8217;s the plan?&#8221; (21:06-21:10).</p></li><li><p><strong>Worry-based:</strong> &#8220;I&#8217;m not sure I can do it,&#8221; &#8220;It&#8217;s not safe,&#8221; &#8220;I need help&#8221; (21:12-21:16).</p></li><li><p><strong>Demographic-based:</strong> &#8220;I&#8217;m too old or too young,&#8221; &#8220;You can&#8217;t where I&#8217;m from,&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;m not qualified&#8221; (21:17-21:24).</p></li><li><p><strong>Perspective-based:</strong> &#8220;I don&#8217;t feel successful,&#8221; &#8220;What will others say or think?&#8221;, &#8220;What if I fail?&#8221; (21:24-21:30). The book also includes a final chapter, &#8220;Yeah, but now what?&#8221; (9:59-10:02), and features 25 stories of people who have overcome their &#8220;yeah buts&#8221; (10:17-10:31).</p></li></ul></li><li><p><strong>The Book as a Tool</strong> (11:18-12:01): Raj highlights that the book is evergreen and can be revisited repeatedly, as people go through cycles of limiting beliefs. Marc designed it so readers can pick up any chapter relevant to their current &#8220;yeah but&#8221; (12:56-13:00). Each chapter includes a &#8220;but buster&#8221; section for self-reflection (15:32-15:59).</p></li><li><p><strong>Marc&#8217;s Biggest Struggle</strong> (17:03-18:00): Marc reveals his biggest &#8220;yeah but&#8221; was &#8220;What are others going to say?&#8221; or &#8220;What are people going to think?&#8221; as he was not a professional writer.</p></li><li><p><strong>The Publishing and Marketing Journey</strong> (24:02-32:50): Marc details his extensive process for publishing and marketing his book, including:</p><ul><li><p>Using <strong>Reedsy.com</strong> to find editors (24:28-26:50).</p></li><li><p>Learning about different types of editors (developmental, copyediting) (25:50-26:00).</p></li><li><p>Emphasizing that the book was <strong>not written with AI</strong> (26:17-26:26).</p></li><li><p>Working with a UK-based editor for 18 months on cover design, editing, and layout (26:50-27:29).</p></li><li><p>Registering with the <strong>Library of Congress</strong> and obtaining <strong>ISBN numbers</strong> (27:41-27:44).</p></li><li><p>Ensuring worldwide distribution through platforms like <strong>Ingram</strong> (27:44-27:47), leading to sales in Italy, Sweden, and Brazil (27:48-27:53).</p></li><li><p>Producing the book in multiple formats: <strong>hardcover, paperback, ebooks (Apple, Kindle)</strong>, with an audiobook in the works (28:05-28:22).</p></li><li><p>Handling the <strong>marketing himself</strong> (29:02-29:03), leveraging his business background and CRM to track advanced reader copies, engagements, and endorsements (29:06-29:35).</p></li><li><p>Acknowledging that most first-time authors sell fewer than 100 copies, and many book buyers don&#8217;t read the books they purchase (31:36-32:05).</p></li></ul></li><li><p><strong>Prioritizing Time and Value</strong> (33:09-35:50): Marc introduces his &#8220;wolfeisms&#8221; acronym <strong>BUMPT (Best Use of My Prioritized Time)</strong> (32:57-33:03). He advises people to read his book first before asking for his time, establishing a barrier that shows willingness to invest in themselves and value his time (34:00-34:52).</p></li></ul>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[“Myself Lost”; The Mixr Live with Larry Bone]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now (44 mins) | A recording from &#2358;&#2381;&#2352;&#2368;raj's live video]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/larry-bone-myself-lost</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/larry-bone-myself-lost</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 16:27:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/181431672/f91e03ff00f05ffd756cad5994e50c8b.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>More conversations and takeaways are available on my YouTube channel. Please <a href="https://youtube.com/@rajofftherecord">subscribe to the channel</a> and stay tuned for more insights from the writing desk.</em></p><div id="youtube2-QVQV4MkvpT0" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;QVQV4MkvpT0&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/QVQV4MkvpT0?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div><h4>Conversation Summary (by Google Gemini)</h4><p>This video captures a live session that encountered initial <strong>technical difficulties</strong> (0:01-0:12), leading to the host, &#2358;&#2381;&#2352;&#2368;raj, temporarily losing his intended guest. While waiting, he discusses the <strong>new desktop live streaming feature</strong> (0:27-0:31) and invites viewers to join and test it out (0:37-0:50).</p><p>The original topic for the live session was &#8220;street photography in the age of smartphones&#8221; with Rajiv Chopra from Delhi (1:48-1:52, 35:56-36:03), but due to his absence, the conversation shifted.</p><p>Larry Bone, an author, unexpectedly joins the live stream (3:14-3:26). The host introduces <strong>Larry&#8217;s book, </strong><em><strong>Myself Lost</strong></em> (4:43-4:57), a thriller about a character named Lal Benjamin (or Red Benjamin) who experiences challenges while visiting India for the first time (10:19-11:03). A unique aspect of the book is that Larry wrote it without ever having been to India, relying on extensive research and his knowledge from Bollywood movies (11:19-11:37, 13:38-13:50).</p><p>Larry discusses his <strong>two-year writing process</strong> (16:58-17:02) and how he was motivated to finish the book by a colleague from Kerala (17:19-18:08). He also touches on the challenges of marketing his book, particularly to an Indian audience (26:38-27:46), and the hope of attending the Jaipur Book Festival (32:33-32:52).</p><p>The host also mentions other Substack authors and their works, including <strong>Alicia, a house sitter</strong> (34:38-35:05), and <strong>Flavio, a photographer</strong> (29:30-29:55), who recently visited India. The session concludes with the host expressing excitement about the <strong>new desktop live streaming feature</strong> (36:10-36:23) for building community and promoting content on Substack (40:09-41:04).</p><div class="install-substack-app-embed install-substack-app-embed-web" data-component-name="InstallSubstackAppToDOM"><img class="install-substack-app-embed-img" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vcrV!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F22a9d7ca-47cd-4f71-9ebd-50e650037928_256x256.png"><div class="install-substack-app-embed-text"><div class="install-substack-app-header">Get more from &#2358;&#2381;&#2352;&#2368;raj in the Substack app</div><div class="install-substack-app-text">Available for iOS and Android</div></div><a href="https://substack.com/app/app-store-redirect?utm_campaign=app-marketing&amp;utm_content=author-post-insert&amp;utm_source=rajofftherecord" target="_blank" class="install-substack-app-embed-link"><button class="install-substack-app-embed-btn button primary">Get the app</button></a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Pictures Speak: Writer Rajiv Chopra’s Tramping in India]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now | An unscripted conversation with a street photographer and history enthusiast, Rajiv Chopra, who wanders India to capture the beauty within its everyday life.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/live-with-rajiv-chopra</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/live-with-rajiv-chopra</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/181445125/63dd0c1d3fda4e9916ad483d22531e07.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>More conversations and takeaways are available on my YouTube channel. Please <a href="https://youtube.com/@rajofftherecord">subscribe to the channel</a> and stay tuned for more insights from the writing desk.</em></p><h4>Conversation Summary (by Google Gemini)</h4><p>This live session is a conversation with Rajiv Chopra about various topics, from personal journeys to cultural insights. The <strong>purpose of the live session</strong> as an opportunity to connect with people (0:39-1:11) and our <strong>shared passion for writing and photography</strong> as a way to escape the current political climate (1:28-2:06). </p><p><strong>Rajiv resides in India</strong> (3:07-4:19). The conversation highlights interesting ways people travel the world, including an introduction to <strong>Alicia, a global house sitter</strong> (4:42-6:20), and <strong>Flavio, a volunteer traveler</strong> (6:26-6:50).</p><p>Rajiv shares his <strong>personal history</strong>, describing himself as part of the &#8220;sandwich generation&#8221; due to his family&#8217;s refugee status during the 1947 partition of India (7:27-10:03). He recounts his <strong>career journey</strong> from engineering to corporate life, and his <strong>unexpected entry into photography</strong> in 1983 after a pivotal moment (10:04-12:05). He details how he acquired his first camera and started with black and white photography (12:06-13:50), and how he eventually <strong>transitioned from the corporate world to focus on photography, writing, and teaching</strong> (14:07-15:20). He also discusses his positive experience with <strong>Substack</strong> as a blogging platform (15:21-17:00).</p><p>The host praises Rajiv&#8217;s voice in his <strong>podcast, Dusty Mike Chronicles</strong>, and his <strong>voiceovers for Dusty Lens Chronicles on YouTube</strong> (17:25-18:40). Rajiv explains his <strong>disinterest in mainstream media</strong> and his focus on geopolitics from a national perspective (18:53-19:50). He reflects on his <strong>evolution in street photography</strong>, shifting from capturing poverty to exploring historical places and nature (21:55-23:12).</p><p>A significant part of the conversation revolves around Rajiv&#8217;s <strong>travels within India</strong>, particularly his experience at the <strong>Zero Music Festival in Arunachal Pradesh, Northeast India</strong> (23:22-25:02). He emphasizes his desire to <strong>explore his own country</strong> more deeply (25:03-25:40), a sentiment echoed by the host (25:43-28:20). Rajiv delves further into the Zero Music Festival, discussing the unique <strong>animist beliefs</strong> of the local people in Arunachal Pradesh (28:48-37:05). He highlights the stark contrast in air quality between Delhi and Zero, reinforcing his current focus on nature (37:10-39:00).</p><p>Finally, Rajiv explains how his <strong>travels and photography inform his writing</strong>, leading him to discover and share historical narratives. He speaks about his discovery of the book &#8220;Daughters of the Sun&#8221; and his subsequent research into the <strong>often-overlooked history of powerful Mughal women</strong> and other Indian queens who have been &#8220;written out of history&#8221; (39:59-44:21).</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Curious Travel Writer on India, Selfies, and Spice with Flavio Massignan]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now (63 mins) | Flavio Massignan's first-time India adventure&#8212;from South to North, two weddings, chaotic Mumbai streets, vibrant Jaipur forts, and countless memories&#8212;on a celebratory trip with his wife.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/the-marinade-mixr-live-flavios-journey</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/the-marinade-mixr-live-flavios-journey</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2025 17:33:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/180765672/55413a515069eea99be802c7b26476d5.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>More conversations and takeaways are available on my YouTube channel. 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We were driving back to Melbourne after a day of exploring the scenic views and beach towns along the Great Ocean Drive when I noticed a quaint little coffeehouse on the roadside overlooking the ocean. Since then, I&#8217;ve dreamt of opening my own cafe someday, when I am ready to slow down and ease into life.</p><p>For world travelers, Mykonos (Greece), seems to be the hot spot to relax by the seaside with their favorite cup o&#8217; joe. Similar bucket list destinations flaunt breathtaking views, attracting tourists from all over the world to the lure of watching boats pass by as they sip on a cappuccino.</p><p>Unique cafes are popping up everywhere, even in small remote forgotten places. In my hometown in South India, we now have a retro themed highway tea stop which has been capturing the intrigue of young Instagrammer&#8217;s. Their USP? A recreated 1970&#8217;s village vibe! All it takes is one reel from&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[For the Sake of Free Speech]]></title><description><![CDATA[When we are left with conflicting choices, there is only one thing to do.]]></description><link>https://blog.13apples.com/p/for-the-sake-of-free-speech</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://blog.13apples.com/p/for-the-sake-of-free-speech</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[श्रीraj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jan 2024 05:23:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1600096194534-95cf5ece04cf?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw5M3x8ZnJlZWxhbmNlJTIwbWVkaWF8ZW58MHx8fHwxNzA2NTYyMTE3fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The South Korean entrepreneur, <strong>Oh Yeon-ho</strong>, famously said that &#8220;every citizen is a reporter&#8221; before starting his online newspaper Ohmynews.com in the year 2000. He coined the term citizen journalism, born out of his distrust of traditional main stream news media. Here we are, two decades later, living in a world where we rely on YouTubers, influencer TikTok videos, microblogging feeds, and Substack, to digest encapsulated news from around the world. A regular guy sipping on his Cortado and typing away on his laptop in a local coffee shop has the power to change the world with his words. </p><p>Yeoh-ho stated a revolution, but it had one major flaw. Every citizen started to believe their truth. If your source of truth isn&#8217;t mine, then yours must be fake news. If hate news outlets are an abomination for some who demand censorship, it is a constitutional right for others. We have lost trust in government, but we believe in the truth socials controlled by megalomaniacs. We are skeptical about wha&#8230;</p>
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